Betransformed

The rate at which people are getting anxious, tired, depressed, and frustrated these days has been on an increase. I almost lost 3 of my friends to these things, but thank God they picked up once they discovered the solution to their problems. That's what I will be sharing here. I have discovered the true cause of depression, anxiety, and frustration. I found out that everyone I have spoken to or counseled as regards this issue, all gave similar replies. They were all focusing on the wrong details of their lives.  They were paying so much attention to all the things they couldn't or have not been able to do, they were focusing so much on what they have not been able to get right, and they were absorbed in all the things they couldn't control. They had lost sight of all their strengths and were now focusing on their weaknesses. Such focus will only end up draining strength and hope from you. I understand that you may not have everything in control now. I get that things may...

 What I am to tell you right now might surprise you, but it's true. Ok, this is it," No matter how much wealth, fame, or friends you acquire, there will always be a gap, or let's call it a longing in your heart that can never be filled. No material things or natural thing can fill it". Haven't you heard stories of men and women who were thought to be great and wealthy yet commit suicide? Maybe I'm going to far, let's talk about you. Sincerely, look into your life, you know you more than I do, there's a longing deep-seated in your heart for something you can't place your hands on. Many people felt that longing and thought money, fame, friends, drinks, and ladies could fill it but it only did that temporarily...  Everyone born into the earth is born that way...void of fulfillment. That's what Adam lost in the garden of Eden. And because naturally you and I have Adam as our forefather, we were born with that longing for a sense of fulfillment. ...

He was lying dead on the table right there before my eyes. I could hear the sound of all the people outside the room, crying, mourning and lamenting. Every one was disoriented, not knowing what to do next. I was in the room with a friend and she was trying to tell me what happened, she said some people came into the room and shot the little boy , I just couldn't believe it. Of course I could see that he was lying lifeless on the table there but I just couldn't accept that he was dead. At that moment, I began to shout and declare.." You are full of life! You are full of life! as I drew near to the child. My friend beside me thought I had lost my mind, but when she observed that the little boy started moving as I spoke those words she went to lock the door, just to keep the crying people out... I hadn't stopped speaking life to the child, I was praying in the spirit and at the same time declaring,"You are full of life" to the child. And gradually, life started ...

It's okay to have feelings 😊 It's okay to feel good sometimes Everyone wants to feel good naturally... But one thing you should never do is 'make a your life's decision based on a temporary feeling'...... Cos actually, feelings are temporal... Think, analyse, scrutinize, check your decision... Is it according to the standard of God's Word?..... Most decisions made based on feelings always end up in regrets ... I promise you, you don't want to be there again 😉 he's/she's probably been making you feel all good and mushy... So you have decided to start that relationship or go on with that friendship or marriage.. You think it's okay to go on with that business, because you feel you will make a whole lot of money out of it.....you should probably check it again... You know all the decisions have always wanted to make... I just wanted to remind you to check it again 😉

 I stood in the middle of the road, thinking, asking myself why I got into this. I could not start trekking the 2hrs journey with my legs that had been stressed enough for that day. Neither could I gather myself together or even think of asking someone I don't even know from anywhere to assist me with my transport fare back home. Have you ever been stuck like this before? Maybe it's not exactly in the middle of the road. Maybe it's a relationship, you know you need to get out of. Or dilemma, where you have to choose from two options that you don't even want. Being stuck can be really frustrating, I mean really really frustrating. But the real deal is "how do you handle such situations?" I had just had one of the most stressful days of my life... Finished my first job in the morning and was now rounding up the next. I was relying so much on what I would be paid that evening, All the money I had on me got exhausted on expenses I could not run away from that day....

 Life started for me in 2018😌... You are probably wondering, ' was she born in 2018 ?'  of course not! Come on, I am a big girl 💆😌  Why I said this is because, 2018 was actually the year i stopped existing !  You know there's a huge difference between existing on planet earth and actually Living...  Living comes with freedom ...  Years before 2018 it seemed like I was being ordered around by a master .... A master called FEAR😨.... Oh how Fear dealt with me.... I was actually scared of everything... People, decisions, and majorly myself. I was scared of myself the most because I couldn't stop myself from doing the things I actually wanted to do, neither could I make myself do what I actually wanted to do .... Oh how Fear dealt with me!  I remember going out for alter calls countless number of times... Fear was actually that voice that would tell me, " will you go out now! can't you see how dirty you have been?". And I would stand from my seat and go...